• Annual Tolerance Benefit 2019

    Monday, May 6, 2019 | 6:00 PM

    Westbury Manor, 110 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury NY 11590

    $135 per person | Business Attire

    Sponsored By:

    The Claire Friedlander Family Foundation | Mojo-Stumer Associates Sterlingrisk | Insurance Stewart Title

    Ike, Molly, & Steven Elias Foundation | Samar Hospitality

    Purchase your tickets or sponsorship online today!

    http://weblink.donorperfect.com/tolerance2019

    For more information contact Deborah Lom at (516) 571-8040 or dlom@hmtcli.org.

  • You’re Invited to The Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County’s Tolerance Benefit: “Taste of Long Island” and Silent Auction Monday, May 6, 2019, at 6:00 p.m.

    Glen Cove, NY…  Experience a taste of Long Island’s best restaurants at the Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County’s (HMTC) annual Tolerance Benefit: “Taste of Long Island.”  This year’s benefit features a tasting event and silent auction on Monday, May 6, 2019, at 6 p.m. at Westbury Manor, 1100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury, NY.  In addition, three middle and high-school students will be presented with the Friedlander Upstander Award.

    Bidding at the Silent Auction

    The Tolerance Benefit is a way for donors, volunteers, Holocaust Survivors and members of the community to join together to raise money in support of HMTC’s Holocaust, anti-bias and anti-bullying education programs. Those donations make it possible to provide transportation for school groups to visit HMTC’s world-class museum and to hear first-hand testimony from a Holocaust Survivor and for nurses and law enforcement officers to participate in free training workshops.

    The Friedlander Upstander Award, presented by HMTC and the Claire Friedlander Family Foundation, in conjunction with the Nassau and Suffolk County Police Departments, is awarded to Nassau and Suffolk County middle school and high school students who have acted as Upstanders against bullying or intolerance in any of its forms. Recipients receive a $2,500 scholarship.

    The Tolerance Benefit is sponsored by Samar Hospitality, the Ike, Molly & Steven Elias Foundation, Stewart Title Associates, The Claire Friedlander Family Foundation, and Mojo-Stumer Associates. Other Sponsorship opportunities are available. Tickets are $135 a person and a ten-pack of tickets is available for $1,200. To make a donation or purchase tickets or a sponsorship online visit http://weblink.donorperfect.com/tolerance2019.

    For more information about sponsorship packages and to purchase tickets, contact Deborah Lom at (516) 571-8040 or dlom@hmtcli.org.

  • Friedlander Upstander Award Winner: Sage Gladstone

    Sage Gladstone (3rd from right), a student at South Woods Middle School was a winner of the 2018 Friedlander Upstander Award at at HMTC’s 2018 Tolerance Benefit. Her essay below demonstrates that she has acted as an Upstander against bullying and intolerance.

    Taking action, helping others, and making a difference.  Those are my values and my purpose in life.  I love constantly pushing for a better world, not just speaking about it.  I take initiative and make my ideas come to life.  My sense of responsibility to the world outside of mine is what drives me to help people.  I want to live in a world that is caring, promotes peace, and celebrates differences.  However, I know that can’t happen overnight, and maybe can’t ever happen, but I wake up every day to work towards my goal, rise above obstacles, and be an Upstander for all.

    I have been striving to fulfill that goal of mine since I was five years old.  When I was in kindergarten, I saw that there was a girl a few grades above me who didn’t have any hair.  I felt sad, confused, and worried that she may get made fun of or laughed at, so I wanted to help.  I wanted to show her that someone cared and was thinking about her, so I went home that day to ask my mom if I could cut my hair and just give it to her,  My mom said I couldn’t’ do exactly that but I could donate my hair to people just like her.  Even in my five-year-old mind, I was totally on board with the idea that I could make someone’s day or life better from just one small act.  A few months later, I cut my hair to the point where it looked like I should be dancing the Charleston with my flapper friends, and donated it to Locks of Love.  I did that two more times when I was in fourth grade and this past summer, between seventh and eighth grade.  I realized I was slowly making a change… a change that I wanted to see in our world.

    It has always been a priority of mine to acknowledge others and their feelings because it’s important to appreciate the work that everyone does.  I try to spread my appreciation to people who make our world go around but are sometimes forgotten like the bus drivers, security guards, custodians, and lunch servers.   I also think it is important to stand up to unkind behavior wherever I am.  I will not tolerate rude remarks, bullying, or peer pressure.  Even if doing the right thing is the unpopular choice to make in a situation, I will do it for the sake of the people being hurt.

    Last year, I began many new initiatives at my school to help work towards the change I want to see.  For example, I organized a welcoming committee that invited all of our new students to come and play games and talk about their experiences in our school so far.  I wanted to make sure all the students felt noticed and welcomed.

    When I was home sick with the flu last year, I watched a video online about an amazing non-profit organization called Days for Girls.  This organization assembles sustainable feminine hygiene kits to donate to girls in impoverished areas around the world such as Nepal, parts of India, Haiti and so many other places.  Without the proper materials, these girls end up missing up to five days a week each month with most girls ending up having a deprived education.  Without an education it’s hard for these girls to achieve their goals and pursue their dreams.  These kits aren’t only giving them the items every girl needs, it’s giving them a future… a life to look forward to.  These girls are punished for something that is so natural in every girl’s life and are sent to huts to deal with it by themselves.  While they are in these huts, most commonly refereed to as chhaupadis, their biggest fear isn’t trying to make sure they are staying clean and healthy, it’s worrying about being raped.  These huts are in the middle of nowhere with hardly any protection from any of those vicious men.  After I watched the video, I went to their website to find the Days for Girls’ phone number so I could contact them and see what I could do to help.  When I called, they listed a bunch of volunteer opportunities for me to be apart of.  I thought hosting a drive to collect the materials needed for these kits was the best option.  Once I recovered from the flu and was back at school, I attended a meeting with my feminist club and shared what I had learned about the organization, and pitched the idea of holding a drive.  My club advisers and peers loved the idea but we couldn’t start it just yet because it was too late in the year.  So, we saved my idea for this year.  Over the summer I kept in contact with Days for Girls, collecting all the information I needed to launch a successful drive.  In the fall, I went back to school and planned logistics for this drive to work in meetings with my principal and many conversations with Days for Girls representatives.  Soon, I was ready to put boxes out and have donations roll in.  I really wanted this to be a successful drive so I contacted a representative named Kathy from a local team and asked her to come and speak at my school on behalf of Days for Girls.  We set up a date, and asked students to come listen and learn about Days for Girls at their lunch periods; we had a rather well turn our and even a boy showed up.  It was amazing to have my peers have the opportunity to be educated on an organization that its so important and amazing but yet a forgotten world issue.  After Thanksgiving break we put out donation boxes and I created posters to decorate our school with.  I loved Kathy’s presentation, but I still wanted to teach more about this wonderful organization, so I created a presentation and lectured in health classes about why it is important to donate.  After about a month of running the toiletry drive, my mom and I delivered our four overflowing boxes of donations to Dumont, New Jersey, where Kathy lives.  Throughout this whole experience, I kept in touch with Allie, a representative at the Days for Girls headquarters in Washington State.  After multiple calls and emails, Allie reached out to me and asked if she could feature my story in the Days for Girls monthly newsletter.  Of course I said yes, and Allie congratulated me for being the youngest volunteer to be featured.  My responsibility does not end with one successful drive.  I’m still committed to spreading the message of Days for Girls and will continue to raise awareness at my school.  Next month, I will hold a second drive as well as continue to educate my peers with a global awareness exhibit I’ve organized at my school’s awareness fair.

    The problems needed to be addressed in order to achieve my ideal world does not stop with menstruation.  While we have different religions, talents, hobbies, and beliefs, I know we all have the power to be kind.  I am driven to encourage kindness not only through the halls of my school, but also out in our world.  I am currently in the process of spearheading many kindness movements at my school.  The main project is the Blue Box Campaign where students receive a classmate’s name and are encouraged to write an anonymous compliment about them.  I am also setting it up for teachers.  The main purpose of this movement is to encourage people to make others feel good about themselves and to spread the idea that we can all uplift each other with a simple gesture.  I’m also launching a kindness mural project, where all students are asked to write their definition of kindness.  After everyone’s definition is collected, I will create the mural in a hallway at my school.  The process of each student writing their unique definition of kindness will make them have to consider what being kind actually means to them.  I will also kick off a Token of Kindness Project where Peer Mediators will carry around stickers that have quotes abut kindness on them.  When we see acts of kindness during the school day we will give them out.  This project is designed to let everyone know that all acts of kindness, big or small, never go unnoticed.  To tie all of the kindness projects together, I will be organizing another kindness moment called Kind Hands of South Woods for students and teachers to paint their hands and leave their hand prints on a piece of paper.  This resembles their pledge to be kind and contribute positivity to our school.  I hope I will be able to cement the value of Kindness into the minds of my peers as I launch these initiatives.

    My sense of responsibility to change our world for the better and promote kindness doesn’t just end with humans, I believe I should show the same respect to animals.  I became a vegetarian in kindergarten because I felt really bad at the thought that I was eating another living thing.  However, sticking with those eating habits got difficult especially at such a young age and I was only a vegetarian sporadically, until this past summer when I watched a few documentaries about the vegan diet.  Last month marked 6 month of being vegan, this experience proved to me that helping other human or not is something that I care strongly about and I am willing to do it and not give up.

    “Be the change you want to see in the world” is a powerful quote that I think best sums up my vision for being an Upstander.  I will always push for a better world and challenge myself on how I can make an even larger impact than the day before.  Through high school, college, adulthood, and when I’m old, I will continue to be an Upstander, someone who will never forget the importance of advocating for others and love for helping them.  I hope to spread this message of helping the people around you and thinking about lives beyond your own to all the beautiful humans on this planet we share.

    Are you an Upstander?

    If you have a story that sounds like Sage’s and you are a Middle or High School student from Nassau or Suffolk Counties, share it with us! You might be one of our 2019 Friedlander Upstander Winners.

    Apply via the link below:

    Friedlander Upstander Awards

    Or mail to:

    Helen Turner | Friedlander Upstander Award, 100 Crescent Beach Road, Glen Cove, NY 11542

    For more information please call: (516) 571-8040 or email helenturner@hmtcli.org.

     

     

  • Annual Tolerance Benefit: Taste of Long Island

  • Tolerance Benefit: Made on Long Island – Tasting Event and Silent Auction

  • You’re Invited to HMTC’s Tolerance Benefit: Made on Long Island, May 16, 2016

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    Experience Long Island artisan made foods and crafts at the Holocaust Memorial and Tolerance Center of Nassau County’s (HMTC) annual Tolerance Benefit: “Made on Long Island.”  This year’s benefit features a tasting event and silent auction on Monday, May 16, 2016, at 6 p.m. at Westbury Manor, 1100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury, NY.  In addition, three middle and high-school students will be presented with the Friedlander Upstander Award and one Long Island college student will be awarded the Daniel Gillman Goodfellow Award. Money raised at the Tolerance Benefit goes towards Holocaust, anti-bias and anti-bullying education.

    Auction prizes include a VIP wine tastings at a variety of North Fork Vineyards, a $500 gift certificate for the NYC Food & Wine Festival, an autographed script of “When Harry Met Sally,” and a Bertolucci diamond Ladies Watch.

    The Friedlander Upstander Award, presented by HMTC and the Claire Friedlander Family Foundation, in conjunction with the Nassau and Suffolk County Police Departments, is awarded to Nassau and Suffolk County middle school and high school students who have acted as Upstanders against bullying or intolerance in any of its forms. Recipients receive a $2,500 scholarship.

    The Daniel Gillman Goodfellow Award, presented by HMTC and the Gillman family, is given to a college or university student on Long Island who confronted an act of social injustice or intolerance or helped others in need. The recipient will receive a $1,000 award.

    The Tolerance Benefit is sponsored by Spectronics Corporation, Sterling Risk Insurance and Title Associates. Other Sponsorship opportunities are available. Tickets are $125 a person and a ten-pack of tickets is available for $1,125. Tickets may be purchased online at hmtcli.org.

    For more information about sponsorship packages and to purchase tickets, contact Deborah Lom at (516) 571-8040 or dlom@hmtcli.org.

  • Friedlander Upstander and Gillman Goodfellow Awards Presented at Tolerance Benefit

    HMTC Chair Steven Markowitz and NCPD Deputy Inspector Gary Shapiro, Upstander Award Winners  Paulina Calcaterra, Shannon Butler, Alexis Wojcik, Peter J. Klein, Tracy Garrison-Feinberg, Director CFEIThe 2015 Friedlander Upstander Awards and the first-ever Daniel Gillman Goodfellow Award were presented on May 4, 2015 at the Holocaust Memorial & Tolerance Center of Nassau County’s Tolerance Benefit and Auction. Deputy Inspector Gary Shapiro of the Nassau County Police Department was also honored. Receiving the Friedlander Upstander Award were high school students Shannon Butler and Paulina Calcaterra and middle school student Alexis Wojcik. The recipient of the Gillman Goodfellow Award was Scott Gruenewald.

    The Friedlander Upstander Award, made possibly by the generosity of the Claire Friedlander Family Foundation and established as a legacy from Holocaust Survivor Claire Friedlander, provides an educational scholarship of $2,500 and is presented in cooperation with the Nassau and Suffolk County Police Departments.  Shannon Butler, a senior at Bay Shore High School, received the Friedlander Upstander Award due to her work to help change the way special needs students are viewed and treated. Paulina Calcaterra, a senior at North Shore High School, received a Friedlander Upstander Award because she implemented a student forum to foster constructive discussions about issues of race and policing and shared with students her research on 20th century genocides to deepen their understanding of modern history. Alexis Wojcik, an eighth grader at Plainview-Old Bethpage Middle School, received the award for mentoring elementary school students with autism, helping them learn basic skills and socialization.

    HOlocaust Survivor Charlotte Gillman, Daniel Gillman Goodfellow Award Winner, Scott Gruenewald and HMTC Chair Steven MarkowitzStony Brook University student Scott Gruenewald was the recipient of the first-ever Daniel Gillman Goodfellow Award, which was established by Daniel’s grandmother, a Holocaust Survivor, Charlotte Gillman, in his memory. Scott received the  award because of his many years of community service which includes helping the homeless.

    Guests who attended participated in A Taste of Long Island, featuring some of Long Island’s top restaurants and there was also a silent auction and raffle to benefit HMTC.

  • Tolerance Benefit A Tasting Event & Auction

    TOLERANCE BENEFIT TASTE OF LONG ISLAND & AUCTION
    HONORING CAPTAIN GARY SHAPIRO, NCPD

    Westbury Manor
    1100 JERICHO TURNPIKE, WESTBURY, NY

    MONDAY, MAY 4, 2015 − 6:00 PM

    $10,000 Name Sponsor – SOLD

    Provides programs to 600 students – 10 tickets – Recognition on all pre-event publicity – Recognition on event signage

    $5,000 Corporate Sponsor

    Provides programs to 300 students – 6 tickets – Recognition on all pre-event publicity – Recognition on event signage

    $3,600 Sustaining Sponsor

    Provides programs to 200 students – 4 tickets – Recognition on all pre-event publicity – Recognition on event signage

    $1,500 Supporting Sponsor

    Provides programs to 100 students – 2 tickets – Recognition on all pre-event publicity – Recognition on event signage

    $125 Individual Ticket

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    PURCHASE TICKETS BELOW

    Thank you to our contributing restaurants.  The next time you are at or near one of our supporting restaurants, please be sure to stop in and remember that the best way to say “thank you” is to patronize their establishment. Please make sure you tell them that you are also an HMTC supporter and you are patronizing them because of their generous support to HMTC programs.

    Anthony's Coal Fired

    Anthony’s Coal Fired Pizza

    www.acfp.com/location/great-neck/

    Chocolate Promises

    Chocolate Promises
    www.chocolatepromises.com

    Chris and Tonys

    Chris & Tony’s
    www.chrisandtonys.com/

    Colbeh

    Colbeh
    www.colbeh.com

    Metropolitan Bistro

    Metropolitan Bistro
    www.themetropolitanbistro.com/

    Pearl East

    Pearl East
    www.pearleastny.com/

    Regal Caterers

    Regal Caterers
    www.regalcaterers.com/

    Sweet Dreams Mini Donuts

    Sweet Dreams Donuts
    www.sweetdreamsminidonuts.com

    View Grill

    View Grill (The)
    www.viewgrill.com

    Viana

    Viana Hotel & Spa
    www.vianahotelandspa.com

  • Taste Food From Some of Long Island’s Best Restaurants at HMTC’s Tolerance Benefit

    Taste food from some of Long Island’s best restaurants and chefs at HMTC’s Tolerance Benefit, A Taste of Long Island, on Monday, May 4, 2015 at 6 p.m. at Westbury Manor in Westbury, NY. Tickets can be purchased online. The restaurants and caterers who will be at the Tolerance Benefit are:

    Anthony's Coal Fired

    Anthony’s Coal Fired Pizza has 50 locations throughout Florida, Delaware, New Jersey, New York and Pennsylvania. With a focus on fresh ingredients and authentic recipes, Anthony’s signature menu includes traditional and specialty pizzas with dough made daily, fresh coal oven roasted chicken wings; and large homemade meatballs from a recipe passed down by Anthony’s grandmother. For more information visit www.acfp.com.

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    Brasserie Americana is located in the Inn of Great Neck. Offering a dynamic menu, Brasserie Americana utilizes the freshest seasonal ingredients, with the vast majority of ingredients being produced and prepped in-house. Each of the dishes has a unique French/American flair. For more information visit www.innatgreatneck.com/restaurant-lounge.

    Chocolate Promises

    Chocolate Promises is a New York State Certified Women-Owned Business (WBE) that creates personalized chocolate with edible images. They print full color pictures, logos or messages directly on delicious chocolates, cookies and Belgian truffles, using patented Chocolography technology. For more information visit www.chocolatepromises.com.

    Chris and Tonys

    Chris & Tony’s, located in Syosset, NY, is an Italian family-style restaurant serving steak, seafood, pasta, chicken and more. For more information visit www.chrisandtonys.com.

    Colbeh

    Colbeh, a gourmet restaurant and caterer has been serving authentic Mediterranean Glatt Kosher cuisine for over 25 years. Famous for its kebabs and specialty-flavored rice, Colbeh’s gastronomically unique menus have recently been extended to include international good items such as sushi and elaborate Continental dishes. For more information visit www.colbeh.com.

     

    Marbella Logo

    Marbella Restaurant & Catering is located in Bayside, NY. Chef Esteban Barroco presents the most flavorful dishes from various regions of Spain as well as a number of French and Italian masterpieces. For more information visit www.marbella-restaurant.com.

    Metropolitan Bistro

    The Metropolitan Bistro is a New American eatery with a relaxed vibe in Sea Cliff, NY. For more information visit www.themetropolitanbistro.com.

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    Morton’s has grown to over 69 restaurants but the vision is the same today as it was when they first opened in Chicago in 1978 – quality, consistency and genuine hospitality. Since day one, Morton’s has used the same suppliers for aged prime beef and other meat. They select the best of their inventory for Morton’s and if it doesn’t meet Morton’s standards, it doesn’t get cut for their steaks. For more information visit  www.mortons.com.

     

    Pearl East

    Pearl East, located in Manhasset, NY, specializes in traditional Chinese cuisine, as well as the latest in Japanese cuisine. Their pan-Asian delicacies are made from the finest of ingredients. For more information visit www.pearleastny.com.

    Regal Caterers

    Regal Caterers presents modern kosher cuisine that is fresh and progressive, incorporating the latest trends in dining while maintaining the old-world glatt kosher traditions. Regal Caterers is certified glatt kosher under Kof-K, one of the leading kosher certification agencies in the U.S. For more information visit www.regalcaterers.com.

    Sweet Dreams Mini Donuts

    Sweet Dreams Mini Donuts is a unique mini-donut catering company whose goal is to give their audiences a one-of-a-kind live experience of thrilling dough dropping, flipping fun! For more information visit www.sweetdreamsminidonuts.com.

    View Grill

    The View Grill is located at the Glen Cove Golf Course. Their cuisine features classic American fare. Head Chef and owner Jeanine DiMenna recently appeared on The Food Network show “Kitchen Casino.” For more information visit www.viewgrill.com.

    Viana

    Viana Hotel & Spa, located in Westbury, NY, is a member of the exclusive Small Luxury Hotels of the World. As Long Island’s only “green built” Feng Shui hotel, Viana offers luxurious accommodations and amenities. Viana’s renowned casual restaurant, Marco Polo, serves Italian/Asian fusion cuisine. For more information visit www.vianahotelandspa.com.

    Thank you to our contributing restaurants! The next time you are at or near one of our supporting restaurants, please be sure to stop in and remember that the best way to thank them for supporting HMTC is to patronize their establishment. Please make sure you tell them that you are also an HMTC supporter and you are patronizing them because of their generous support to the Tolerance Benefit and HMTC programs!